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So I've come along a problem. A problem I've seen a lot in this world, so not this is not slight to anyone in particular. But it needs to be said.
People. Use your communication skills.
Seriously, we have not mastered the talent of reading minds yet. Talking behind other people's backs doesn't really solve anything. If something TRULY bothers you, then say it to the person, face to face. If it's that important, if it's bothering you, then just do it. Period.
Sure, you can't be honest all the time; there are times when you can't be honest at all. But in the end, honesty is a good policy to keep in your files. Being frank may not bring you 'closer to God' but so what? You've got to live your life.
I always held on to the belief that you should not let ANYTHING completely rule you. If you do that, you become unbalanced. That's not a good idea. You're letting this, your so called 'pride', rule you from moving on.
Don't do that. It's a waste of your time.
Now, yes, I'm being a bit of a hypocrite here. This is something I've got to learn too. Like I said, you can't be honest all the time. Right now, however, I know that what I'm typing is coming from my heart.
So you can ignore this post if you'd like. Say that there is no such thing as being up front with those around you. To a certain extent, you're right.
But are you really so sure?
...
And that's the end of that!
- =;)
People. Use your communication skills.
Seriously, we have not mastered the talent of reading minds yet. Talking behind other people's backs doesn't really solve anything. If something TRULY bothers you, then say it to the person, face to face. If it's that important, if it's bothering you, then just do it. Period.
Sure, you can't be honest all the time; there are times when you can't be honest at all. But in the end, honesty is a good policy to keep in your files. Being frank may not bring you 'closer to God' but so what? You've got to live your life.
I always held on to the belief that you should not let ANYTHING completely rule you. If you do that, you become unbalanced. That's not a good idea. You're letting this, your so called 'pride', rule you from moving on.
Don't do that. It's a waste of your time.
Now, yes, I'm being a bit of a hypocrite here. This is something I've got to learn too. Like I said, you can't be honest all the time. Right now, however, I know that what I'm typing is coming from my heart.
So you can ignore this post if you'd like. Say that there is no such thing as being up front with those around you. To a certain extent, you're right.
But are you really so sure?
...
And that's the end of that!
- =;)
